TV’s Six Best Platonic Relationships
Who says a guy and a girl can’t be just friends? While most TV shows have sexual tension being broken left and right, some have it go on forever, or even more impressive, have it not exist at all.
This was a surprisingly hard list to compile, and right off the bat I’m asking for your help to fill me in on the ones I’d missed. It just seems like the guy and the girl always end up together in the end. I’ve found six (ehh, five and half) shows that I think qualify as spotlighting strictly platonic relationship, but even with the massive amount of TV I watch, I couldn’t think of many past these.
But check them out and see if you agree. I think you will.
1) Pam and Michael (The Office)
If this list was written pre-season 2 final of The Office, it most definitely would have been Jim and Pam instead. But as we know, that was true love and destiny and all that, and now at the end of season 5, the two are engaged and Pam is pregnant.
But Pam has another platonic friendship that only really became fully flushed out this season, when she walked away from Dunder Mifflin to work for Michael Scott at his self titled paper company. Other touching moments between the two have been in seasons past where Michael was the only one who went to her art show, or when Pam gave Michael a ride home after he was publicly rejected by his girlfriend.
There will never ever be any sort of conceivable scenario where these two will get together, and that’s just fine with me.
2) Tim and Daisy (Spaced)
Ironically enough, Tim and Daisy had to actually pretend to be a couple for the majority of Spaced in order to land themselves a couple’s only apartment. But throughout their fake relationship, they never even so much as kissed, but eventually became best friends with a surprisingly little amount of sexual tension.
To me in the finale, it’s hinted at that the two will probably end up together as a real couple (as they are perfectly average and therefore suited for each other). Spaced is being remade in America, and I fully expect a hookup in the American version because we don’t understand the concept of “subtlety.”
3) Jerry and Elaine (Seinfeld)
Alright, this is cheating a bit as the two did date previously, but “staying friends” after a breakup has never seen a better representation on television. They split their time evenly between scheming, joking and wanting to kill each other, but when it came down to it, were more or less best friends.
Yes, I know there’s the episode where they end up having sex, but that’s pretty much done on a bet, and one slip in a million episodes isn’t too bad.
4) Liz and Jack (30 Rock)
Lemon and Jack have a sort of Yin and Yang relationship, where Jack helps Liz make her life slightly less of a mess, and Liz helps Jack stay grounded when he goes off on executive power trips.
They’ve almost kissed on a few occasions, but the moment is usually laughed off as completely absurd. I can see them getting together in some zany situation where they’re at a party and have to pretend to be married or something, but other than that, I don’t really see and “Aha!” moment in the future where they realize they’re madly in love with each other. Maybe in the series finale.
5) Andy and Maggie (Extras)
Without a doubt the most platonic friendship I’ve ever seen on TV. There was never even so much of a hint at a possible relationship between the two. Possibly because Andy is too self absorbed to EVER be in a relationship, but it’s pretty amazing to see such great chemistry between two different sexes, where neither of them are remotely interested in the other.
Instead, it’s all about friendship, and as Andy gets famous and neglects Maggie, it’s actually kind of heartbreaking, even though romance isn’t involved at all. It’s weird that two out the six shows on this list are British. Maybe they understand inter-gender friendship more than we do.
6) Ari and Lloyd (Entourage)
Hah, alright, I’m really reaching now, but I do love the relationship that Ari and Lloyd have. It’s probably the most abusive relationship on TV today, but despite all the racial slurs and insults, when it comes down to it they always have each other’s backs.
I know Ari isn’t gay, but I personally think it would be pretty awesome to see him and Lloyd riding into the sunset together, but that’s not “bro” enough of a plot development for Entourage. I hear this season that Lloyd might be getting a promotion from being Ari’s bitch, and I’ll look forward to see how that changes their relationship.
You know, Tobias and Lindsay from Arrested Development. Married…Meh…kinda? I just watched the episode of them going to break in to Maggie’s house to get the urine sample, with that “kissing” scene in the shower (shudders).
hah! that’s a pretty good one, esp considering they’re married.
You forgot Mulder and Scully (needless to say, from the X-Files)
The whole time you want them to get it on, but you know it would destroy everything the show has built
benson and stabler from law and order svu have an extremely complicated and compelling yet purely platonic relationship.
@Rockstar Jones
Remember that X-Files episode where it was New Years Eve (I’ll assume it was the Millenium crossover maybe?) and it ended with them almost kissing? Yeah, forget that, they were banging all the way up to the second movie. “But that was the movie!” You may say. Shaddup! They’re still a TV couple who did it in something that isn’t fan fiction. Which we won’t get into. At all.
Not to be super picky but Oscar and his boyfriend went to Pam’s show too…his boyfriend said something mean about her art work and Oscar kinda defended her.
The American remake of Spaced was canned months ago. Edgar or Simon saw the script and said that it was absolutely terrible.
yeah Benson and Stabler’s a good one. Tobias and Lindsay aren’t friends and barely get along, how is that a great platonic relationship??
Tim and Daisy have sex in the first episode of Spaced. And the documentary after was meant to imply that they had a child together.
Sounds like a “Ferris Bueller was a figment of Cameron’s imagination” theory to me.
For the record, if you really follow the X-Files, you’ll know Scully and Mulder were only platonic for the first six seasons. Somewhere in the seventh they start sleeping together, but they keep it secret from everyone, including the audience. We just get clues and “figure it out.” The season finale cliffhanger is that Scully is pregnant just as Mulder goes missing. The relationship is absolutely there in the 8th and 9th seasons and the 2nd movie.
How about Turk and J.D. from scrubs?
I would like to add to this list Roz and Frasier from ‘Frasier’. In my opinion they were friends with no sexual tension. I think there was one weird episode where they slept together, but then they admitted it was a mistake and remained friends.
Oh FYI, as for Tim and Daisy of Spaced, Simon Pegg has said that he always intended for Daisy and Tim to get together eventually. They would have if they’d done more seasons. I do think they had some sexual tension in the 2nd season.
They actually finally showed them together in the “Skip to the End” documentary on the Spaced DVD. SPOILERS: At the end of the doc, there’s a short scene with Daisy and Tim on the stoop of their flat. Tim’s holding a baby & they banter about who should change her. Daisy wins, Tim tells her he loves her, she replies “I know” and they walk back into the building together.
So ultimately they’re not a platonic couple.
Lisbon and Jane (Jane’s a guy) on The Mentalist I believe have a strictly platonic relationship. Jane, of course is obsessed with his wife’s murder and the apprehension of her killer ‘Red John’. Although it does not seem to be trending toward romance I don’t suppose it can be categorically dismissed even though the current success of the series has something to do with the Plat. ret. dynamic.